Forgiveness & Grace

The Two Debtors

Luke 7:41-43

The Parable

Jesus was dining at the home of Simon the Pharisee when a sinful woman came in weeping, washed Jesus's feet with her tears, dried them with her hair, kissed them, and anointed them with expensive perfume. Simon thought to himself that if Jesus were truly a prophet, he would know what kind of woman was touching him. Jesus then told a simple parable: a moneylender had two debtors — one owed five hundred denarii and the other fifty. Neither could pay, so the moneylender forgave both debts. Jesus asked Simon which debtor would love the lender more. Simon correctly answered the one who was forgiven more.

Historical Context

This exchange happened during a dinner at a Pharisee's home, likely early in Jesus's ministry in Galilee. The woman's actions were scandalous in that culture — letting down her hair and touching a man publicly were deeply inappropriate. Simon's internal judgment revealed his self-righteousness, while the woman's extravagant devotion revealed her profound gratitude for forgiveness already received.

Key Lessons

Modern Application

This parable challenges both those who feel they are 'too sinful' and those who feel they are 'good enough.' Those with a troubled past who have experienced God's forgiveness often have the deepest gratitude and most passionate devotion. Meanwhile, those who consider themselves respectable may struggle with a lukewarm faith precisely because they do not feel they need much forgiveness.

Discussion Questions

  1. Do you identify more with the person who owed much or the one who owed little? Why?
  2. How has awareness of your own failings deepened your capacity for love and gratitude?
  3. What can churches learn from this parable about welcoming imperfect people?

Related Parables

Unforgiving ServantPharisee And Tax CollectorProdigal Son